VR: Phone Game

[Mr. Mojo]

Here's three questions for the phone game video response:

1. My wings and I are always debating about this: Should I take her number, exchange or just give her mine?
Personally I am always for exchanging, especially because it happened to me more than once that a set that went really great did not call back and I just like to be able to control the situation. But I can see how only giving my number telegraphs non-neediness and when she calls you know it's really on. So please elaborate on that.

2. How much time should you spend on the phone or how many sms should you send, before you set a date up? I know that it should just flow naturally from the conversation over messages or phone, but a general guide line when things are not running that smooth would be great.

3. How do you go about sparking sexual tension over the phone/sms and how much of it should you let be built up?
I find that especially the start up is hard. I've had great sms trials with girls going all the way to sms sex and I laid those chicks afterwards. But those were chicks where I just knew from the way they were that they were into it. How do you get girls into it (sexual tension, sex fantasies) that are not that open to those things usually?

Thanks in advance and keep up the great work Vin,

Mr. Mojo

[diablo]

Originally Posted by Mr. Mojo

Here's three questions for the phone game video response:

1. My wings and I are always debating about this: Should I take her number, exchange or just give her mine?
Personally I am always for exchanging, especially because it happened to me more than once that a set that went really great did not call back and I just like to be able to control the situation. But I can see how only giving my number telegraphs non-neediness and when she calls you know it's really on. So please elaborate on that.

2. How much time should you spend on the phone or how many sms should you send, before you set a date up? I know that it should just flow naturally from the conversation over messages or phone, but a general guide line when things are not running that smooth would be great.

3. How do you go about sparking sexual tension over the phone/sms and how much of it should you let be built up?
I find that especially the start up is hard. I've had great sms trials with girls going all the way to sms sex and I laid those chicks afterwards. But those were chicks where I just knew from the way they were that they were into it. How do you get girls into it (sexual tension, sex fantasies) that are not that open to those things usually?

Thanks in advance and keep up the great work Vin,

Mr. Mojo

1. Think about what you want Mojo...
I'm busy, and don't have much time to chit-chat...
so i let a girl type my number in her phone, then tell her to press call so i have hers.
because i don't like to answer numbers i don't know.
then leave it at that.
if she calls, cool.. if not i'll see if i can get her to reply to a text i'll send later.
I am busy so if we don't make contact like that i don't worry about it.
imagine if you were to call EVERY SINGLE NUMBER you ever got?
-that's just bad time management.

2. the amount of texting should depend on the type of woman your dealing with..
i like college girls, and most of them LOVE texting. they'll do it all day and night.
i've dated an older woman (my teacher) who never pulled her phone out once in front of me.
maybe texting is an insecurity issue for chicks.
and it is EASIER for both the male and female.

3. throw out some hooks on the phone or sms
phone- "i was just about to go to my favorate place.."
Her:"where?"
Me:"the bookstore.."
her: "umm... oh."

(notice i'm getting her to ask me questions?)

Me:"i love going up there... everyone drinks coffee in the bookstore... people are funny to look at when they are touching... themselves.... all over...... because they drank so much caffeine.... and.. they can't help it."

-if you say this right, and she likes the bookstore (which would also imply she's slightly intelligent) she will giggle or something or hang up on you, who cares.

With an SMS..
Just tell her what you're doing...
What you're doing IS INTERESTING, right?

[Redux]

1. My wings and I are always debating about this: Should I take her number, exchange or just give her mine?

Both. I normally let then type their number in my cellphone and them call her right away. She saves my number. It gives them an opportunity to take the initiative if they want while I lead too. Done.

2. How much time should you spend on the phone or how many sms should you send, before you set a date up?

Personally, this is a SP for me. I don't have a consistent structure but generally I talk a bit and in a high note I set up a date.

I think phone game is more productive and fast (there's no excuse, internet calls make it very cheap).


3. How do you go about sparking sexual tension over the phone/sms and how much of it should you let be built up?

I would like to hear more about this too but the way I do is with role playing and metaphors.


How do you get girls into it (sexual tension, sex fantasies) that are not that open to those things usually?

I can say that developing a sexual voice tone is very important ("yeaaah baabeee" almost like she's giving you a BJ) that can lead into something more sexual without you even noticing.