How do you create intrigue???

[BigGame]

I listened to vin on his dating diablo audio product and he talked about curiosity and intrigue.....But what are ways to create this????? and to keep creating this whenever you talk to a woman.

[ITotem]

I'm sure Vin will talk more about that in his upcoming newsletters and products.

The way I look at it is that you slowly show different facets of your life/personality to the woman every time you see her. Don't tell her EVERYTHING about you the first time around, just drop hints of value... that's what I call it. You mention stuff about your life casually, without bringing real attention to it. Go more in depth on it if the girl asks more about it.

You are basicually enticing her curiosity.

For example, let's say that every summer, you go to Spain. You could say:
"Well, every summer, I usually go overseas, but this summer, I'm gonna go to California."

You mentioned that you go somewhere, but she doesn't know where yet. She has a vague idea that you are a traveler. If she's curious, she'll ask you at some point what did you mean by going overseas. Then you can go in your story of Spain.

You can do the same with your ethnicity/background when a girl asks you where are you from. You can make it vague and interesting. Well.. I used to live on the East Coast, but now, I love LA. I moved here 2 years ago." As you can tell, I'm opening up to her, dropping hints of value, but there's this intrigue surrounding me.

[walnuts]

This is just a thought, so I may be wrong (I'm still experimenting with it myself), but I think that if you approach her very confidently, calmly, and vibe with her well, I think that probably creates intrigue in itself. The average AFC most likely wouldn't be able to do that, so doing that communicates that you're different than other guys and it's very intriguing to her.

I can think of two times where I slowed down my body language a bit, relaxed more, and slowed down my pace of speech a bit. In both cases, the girl seemed a bit nervous, so doing that helped her to make her more comfortable I think. I got a number in both cases, so I'm guessing that it must have created intrigue. One of the numbers lead to a day 2. I got the other number just yesterday, but I believe a day 2 will be coming up shortly from it.

[spearhead]

I think the way you create intrigue is by doing or saying things that are "out of norm" for her but in a positive fashion.
I could be wrong but I would be careful about getting the mindset of withholding things from yourself. Of course you shouldn't tell everything about yourself too soon, but I think that if the confidence is there this is something that won't happen anyway. I think the people that give everything upfront and who try to tell all their life story too soon are the ones that come from a mindset of being approval seeking. If you come from a mindset of being approval giving it is something that won't happen.
Keep in mind that if you don't open up at all you will have attainability problems and that normally people don't open up until you do. One thing that I do is to try to talk more about how I feel about things than about actual facts. That way the you will connect well with her but you also will keep the intrigue by her not knowing everything about yourself.
Another good way to create intrigue in my opinion is to not be predictable in your actions, by being spontaneous. Think of your life as a movie. If you can exactly predict what will happen in a movie it is boring, isn't it?
Also as the above poster said, having a warm confident vibe will set you appart from most people and will create intrigue.
Also making her put effort into the interaction is something that creates intrigue because it is something that takes the confidence which most people don't have. Think of your relative compliance levels. Everytime her compliance is higher than yours will create attraction and intrigue.

[Swisha]

I think a lot of it comes down to your confidence - which is released through things like body language and tonality.

I was in a set the other night and abruptly some girl literally walked into my face, I stared at her for a couple of seconds before I realised she was an old school friend. Lots of hugs and screaming ensued, especially between me and her hotter friend. ; ) But one thing one of them said was 'I can't believe how much you've changed!'

This could only have been created because I was laid back resting against a banister, well-dressed and already in set.

They asked me where I was going for uni (slightly apprehensively because they knew I had repeated a year, and probably expected me to turn out a bum). But they were also 'energised' by the fact I said I was going for Economics at UCL [ranked 4th in the world and the third oldest uni in England, yes I had to drop this into the post : )] So here I think intrigue was also created because of contrast - a failure who repeated a year turning into a straight-a student with a promising future, and curiosity is created because of where I might be ending up.

[Gabler]

You take her to your home. Then you say that you have to get something, while she waits at your house. Then you can tell her that she is allowed to go anywhere she wants in the house,except for one closet. That's the only place she can't touch...

[diablo]

Originally Posted by BigGame

I listened to vin on his dating diablo audio product and he talked about curiosity and intrigue.....But what are ways to create this????? and to keep creating this whenever you talk to a woman.

i'm assuming you mean creating intrigue in a club environment?
or like in a relationship environment?
what do you mean

if you mean in general... then multiple threading is a great way to create curiosity.