Text Game, (Second fav thing about u)

[kvish13]

Hi guys,

I'm new to the forum but have been reading some of Vin's material and thing it is amazing. I need help figuring out a situation. I recently number closed a n HB9 at a house party and set up a day 2 that same night. Day 3 I text her

Me: your little nose freckles are def. my second fav thing about u
Her: hmm, what's the first?

I didn't respond, and changed the subject trying to set up a meet that same night. She called and asked for directions to the party I invited her too but ended up flaking. Later she text me this at 4am.

Her: What's the first favorite?
Her: I really should not have said that oops.
Her: Honestly tho im kinda curious

This all happened last night at 4 am. 24 hours later, i'm stuck as to whether I should tell her the first fav, or somehow build off that?

[flow]

Originally Posted by kvish13

I should tell her the first fav, or somehow build off that?

Why don't you tell her the third thing you like about her? And use the first thing to build suspense.

[*Silver*]

Not to be takin away from the post, just adding to i hope-

That 2nd best thing that works very well ive used it a couple times like this weekend-

Me- 2nd best thing you do is oder room service
Her- IF THAT'S MY 2ND BEST, THEN WHAT I WONDER WHAT 1ST BEST IS????? (there was lots of dominace, flirting, kino type stuff i was doing befor that tho)


But i like that thought of flows tho!!! Good to keep in mind for later!!! Thanks for the idea flow!!!!

[flow]

Originally Posted by *Silver*

But i like that thought of flows tho!!! Good to keep in mind for later!!! Thanks for the idea flow!!!!

Well, actually a friend of mine used it once a long time ago. He got down to the twelfth best thing, but didn't tell the girl what the first one was. Then she asked why on earth he wouldn't tell the first one. And he said "I never tell a girl about the first thing I like about her until I had sex with her." To which she answered "Ok, I'll have sex with you if you promise to tell directly afterward."

They had sex. And afterwards she said "OK, now you tell me what is the first thing you like about me."

Then my friend said "The first thing I like about you is that you are so easy." The girl yelled "What!!!" and hit him with a pillow. And after the pillow-war they had sex again.

It was the girl who told me the whole story so I guess its true. Of course there was a lot of other communication going on during a whole week, and he told her just one or two things each day, after a lot of persuasion from her.

[*Silver*]

Originally Posted by flow

Well, actually a friend of mine used it once a long time ago. He got down to the twelfth best thing, but didn't tell the girl what the first one was. Then she asked why on earth he wouldn't tell the first one. And he said "I never tell a girl about the first thing I like about her until I had sex with her." To which she answered "Ok, I'll have sex with you if you promise to tell directly afterward."

They had sex. And afterwards she said "OK, now you tell me what is the first thing you like about me."

Then my friend said "The first thing I like about you is that you are so easy." The girl yelled "What!!!" and hit him with a pillow. And after the pillow-war they had sex again.

It was the girl who told me the whole story so I guess its true. Of course there was a lot of other communication going on during a whole week, and he told her just one or two things each day, after a lot of persuasion from her.

Well then, thanks for sharing it and how it was based on from what you heard! Either way i like the idea of keeping them guessing and wanting more!

I had a couple of girls who asked what the first thing was and i didnt tell them and they just dropped it and said fine and let it be. I didnt really know how to handle those situations when they didnt press.....

But that all follows nicely from the story and im sure it works wonders most the time?

[flow]

I guess, what you have to do is to say "I'm not going to tell the first, but i can tell you the third." And then keep doing it. It does build suspense if its done right.

And its not only what I heard, I actually was present at almost all the occasions except the twelfth and the sex part. That was the part the girl told me about, because I asked. I did hear when he told her about when he tells the girls the first thing , and I did hear her say "Ok..." (I was quite amazed about that, at the time). I wasn't present when he told her she was easy.

And I can definitely tell that the girl really liked being teased like that. Every time she asked she would get a really nice compliment so obviously the first one had to be super nice. That's what kept her thinking about it.

Sorry, I was a bit unclear on the fact that I was there. Oh, the girl was also a friend of mine, thats why I could ask her what actually happend.

[*Silver*]

Well ive done the 2nd best thing with diff. girls.... And MOST always want to know what number one is, and i usually tease them for a while, and let them guess or i play around and tease em with it, then usually say something thats true but i dont just "give in" to them, i make them "work" for it! But then theres a couple girls who just are like, well if you dont wanna tell me then thats fine or whatever..... Thats were i got lost and usually just laughed.......

Hahaha, i see, well either way like i said thanks for sharing it! Its deff. a good way IMO to keep em hooked and interested......

Ya the "Your so easy" part, thats great!

Your friend played that well.... Ill have to fig out how to use that someday haha

[kvish13]

Thanks Flow! I just f-closed last night, when she once again texted me in the middle of the night! I maintained intrigue by never letting her know the first thing but going all the way to the 5th favorite thing. Once again, thanks for the input!