open loop power

[diablo]

just a sublte change in your conversational behavior can create open loop power.
this is the power of saying something, in a manner that will get her to ask you about it [compliance]

for example, "hey, did your nose peircing hurt?"
her: "yea.."
Me: "well, when you take it out... you know it's gonna scar"
her: "omg... i never thought of it like that... shit."
me: "well.. you SHOULDN'T worry."

[now she gets to thinking, "why SHOULDN'T i worry??? i'm gonna be scarred... i have to ask why he said that"]

Her: "wait.. why shoudln't i worry about a scar on my face??"
me: "well... i mean, now... they have a cream... that can get rid of tattoos!"
her: ' oh yea i've heard of that"
me: "mmm hmmm... so if they can get rid of your sweet tattoo of a skull sword slashing through red roses [sarcasm]... they can get rid of your face"
her: hahahahahaha

it's so subtle the way you get her talking more....
you can really open loop anything you say...

me: "i noticed you over here [smile]... SOMETHING about you made me come talk to you"
her: "what SOMETHING about me made you come talk to me???"