Suggestion request

[A-Italy]

Hi Vin.
I already exchanged some mails with Sebastian, and I wanted to gratulate with you fort your very good work. I'm italian, so I apologize for my non-perfect english.
So, let's start with the subject of this post.
I wanted to ask you, Sebastian and the other users of this forum some suggestions on how to gain the attention of a specific girl. That means, I've met a girl, since about two months, and I like her very much. In the past, I nomrally made the error (with the girls I liked) to became too "friend", so they diddn't look at me like a potential partner. But this time, I payed attention to not let this arrive, and in fact, I think it's the case.
Now, this girl and I communicate frequently through a forum we both go to, messages, phone calls, and sometimes we have met ourselves. Now, the problem is that I wish that SHE would look for me, and not the contrary. So, how can I stimulate her interest towards me and, in this way, shift our relation on a closer level?

Thank you very much.

A. , Italy.

[Vin DiCarlo]

Hi A -

You are asking a very big question.

It's the fundamental one that we try to answer through the entire field of pick-up.

One thing I can suggest is that you become less available.

If you talk to her, meet with her regularly, then she will be accustomed to that.

If you take it away, she may feel a bit of a vacuum. Now you have set the stage for the seduction to begin.

So here's your first assignment, A.

Become more scarce. Create a vacuum.

When she starts to reach out toward you, post another message and I'll give you step 2.

Vin