(You) outside of PU

[FreeVerse]

Well, lot of things come to mind. I never hand any committments really, except to my fam, but other than that, I've been exploring life.

So far, it's been magic, acting, writing, military, sports, massage therapy, maybe more.

Now, i realized that the mind is changing all the time. What doesn't change however and that recently discovered that my deepest desire is to be on the edge, that feeling where you're on a high story building and theres an edge and you lean over it and you have the feeliing of falling or a rush.

Another deep desire which will be on the other side when the pendulum swings is to help others. I feel like there's no void in me when I help others. I feel fulfilled.

what's your story outside of PU?

[flow]

Nice thread Freeverse

I'm about twice your age I think and has had lots of committments.

I wont state a list of all the things I've been exploring. The list is so long I can hardly remember. I have become the guy with lots of extraordinary experiences and hundreds of skills that I had as a role-model when I was 20.

I know that desire to be on the edge, I don't think it will never leave me. I can tell you though that it grows worse. Eventually you wont think its enough to be on the edge. You have to be beyond the edge, to venture into the unknown, throw yourself out in the void and become the edge. To be the tool that cuts through reality and reshapes it into the future.

And one day you realize that this is no longer an option but mandatory because the older more experienced guys that used to clear the first path or do the first jump don't exist any longer and you are that guy who others expect to make that first jump or show them the path.

Then you suddenly understand that there is no other side, no pendulum. living on the edge and helping others is the same action. You go there and they will follow. You are beyond fulfilled and has become a symbol, a force of nature, a channel for the process of destruction and reconstruction.

My mind is still...
/Flow

[FreeVerse]

Originally Posted by flow

Nice thread Freeverse

I'm about twice your age I think and has had lots of committments.

I wont state a list of all the things I've been exploring. The list is so long I can hardly remember. I have become the guy with lots of extraordinary experiences and hundreds of skills that I had as a role-model when I was 20.

I know that desire to be on the edge, I don't think it will never leave me. I can tell you though that it grows worse. Eventually you wont think its enough to be on the edge. You have to be beyond the edge, to venture into the unknown, throw yourself out in the void and become the edge. To be the tool that cuts through reality and reshapes it into the future.

And one day you realize that this is no longer an option but mandatory because the older more experienced guys that used to clear the first path or do the first jump don't exist any longer and you are that guy who others expect to make that first jump or show them the path.

Then you suddenly understand that there is no other side, no pendulum. living on the edge and helping others is the same action. You go there and they will follow. You are beyond fulfilled and has become a symbol, a force of nature, a channel for the process of destruction and reconstruction.

My mind is still...
/Flow

Whadup man. You're about twice my age but man I can see you can connect and that's cool. Most people twice my age are always telling me the "shoulds." Telling me "you should do this..." or "that..." That's cool, that you'd relate to me first then tell me something.

Thanks man

[flow]

Most people twice your age believed in the "shoulds", thought they where the reality, and ended up being someone they don't want to be but think they have no option.

The truth is there are no "shoulds" or "have to's". The only thing there is is YOUR VISIONS, the STRENGHT of YOUR WILL and your SKILL of SEEING REALITY as its is, and not be blinded by the social constructs most people mistake for reality.

I have been reading a lot of your writings in this forum and they are great. You gave me value, now I give back, its that simple.

Your friend
Flow

[*Silver*]

Both of you are great! Wish i could do the same.....

I personally im not worried bout things like going out, experiancing things, taking trips, seeing the world, ETC.... Right now all i really have time for is to figure out my life and what it will take to make it stable as soon as poss., givin the cards ive been delt with in life...

Ive done alot of what i want all ready which isnt a whole lot i guess compared to others, but there are a couple other things i would love to do, but that means i must have a stable life first!

Around me outside of PU, im a tease, playful, joker, kind, outspoken, thoughtful, hardworking, caring and just a enjoyable person to be around! I pride myself on what i know and how i can accoplish being a better person for myself and for others around me! I take alot of things in and try to always make sure i give back more then recived.

I like challenges, especially with women (and thats shooting me in the foot with one of em, siiigh), if im not challenged i usually get board easy with something or someone and move on hahaha, so for me, im almost always doing somthing that is very challenging just to see if i can do it or what i can do with it......

Im always wanting to learn as much as poss with just about everything and everyone! Sometimes thats good, and sometimes it can turn "bad" per se, but i always take sometihng outta it!!! Just like PU in many ways i guess!

[flow]

Originally Posted by *Silver*

Both of you are great! Wish i could do the same.....

You can if you really want to. The cards you've been dealt in life would look totally different if you looked at them another way. You might have the best cards of everyone, but you don't see it, because you look at them the wrong way.

Stability (of all sorts) in life is such a card. Stability is not a means by which you can accomplish other things you want to do in life. Stability is the state you come to when you accomplish the things you want to do in life.

[maverick]

This is by far the best thread of the forum.....Cheers FREEVERSE AND FLOW, man you have been there for me, so i just wanna say THANK YOU. This is coming from my heart and i truly feel this is the best thread i have visited on this forum.

Freeverse, i see where your goin man and thats great, i mean the way you perceive things and the way you approach reality...awesome...wish i could feel and do the same things, the way you do, it inspires me literally to be the best i can ever be and live in the moment rather than trying to make the things outside of my control work for me. I love reading your posts, the reality and the practical approach you have is brilliant...Cheers man

Flow,dude what can i say man...i mean i can honestly say no matter how old you are, you are young at heart and a good mate and i really appreciate that and seriously you can be a killer PUA man...lol...but really my perceptions of PUA community in general have changed since coming on this forum and i can honestly say that they are NOT THE COLD BASTARDS i had perceived them to be originally. I thought all of them must be heartless cold bad boys but people like you make me belive that there are good people on this planet. Have learnt a lot from you...cheers my friend.

[FreeVerse]

Originally Posted by maverick

This is by far the best thread of the forum.....Cheers FREEVERSE AND FLOW, man you have been there for me, so i just wanna say THANK YOU. This is coming from my heart and i truly feel this is the best thread i have visited on this forum.

Freeverse, i see where your goin man and thats great, i mean the way you perceive things and the way you approach reality...awesome...wish i could feel and do the same things, the way you do, it inspires me literally to be the best i can ever be and live in the moment rather than trying to make the things outside of my control work for me. I love reading your posts, the reality and the practical approach you have is brilliant...Cheers man

Flow,dude what can i say man...i mean i can honestly say no matter how old you are, you are young at heart and a good mate and i really appreciate that and seriously you can be a killer PUA man...lol...but really my perceptions of PUA community in general have changed since coming on this forum and i can honestly say that they are NOT THE COLD BASTARDS i had perceived them to be originally. I thought all of them must be heartless cold bad boys but people like you make me belive that there are good people on this planet. Have learnt a lot from you...cheers my friend.

cool cool, glad I can help you.

[*Silver*]

Originally Posted by flow

You can if you really want to. The cards you've been dealt in life would look totally different if you looked at them another way. You might have the best cards of everyone, but you don't see it, because you look at them the wrong way.

True and i understand this. This is the reason why i look at things much diff. then most ppl and look at them in the right way. You can not change the 3of clubs into a Ace which i know, so the point is, how you play em

This is why i have done "alot" of what i want. Just not the REAL prioritys in life!!!

Originally Posted by flow

Stability (of all sorts) in life is such a card. Stability is not a means by which you can accomplish other things you want to do in life. Stability is the state you come to when you accomplish the things you want to do in life.

This is O so true!!! Stability for me, is much more then it is for most... Between the gov. and health, im stuck between a rock and hard place... By no means am i complaining, just stating! So im tryin to find a way to have a "life", and a life that is Stable, so that i may be able to accomplish other things in life......



Thanks for the reply to that Flow!!!!

[dman]

Math, Physics, Sciences, Wargaming, History, Reading, I.T.

Running, Cycling, Triathlons, Swimming, Ironman racing, Extreme Endurance Sports.

Family.

A lot of these I'm really passionate about, and they come way before girls do on my list of piorities.

[authenticallyme]

Originally Posted by flow

Most people twice your age believed in the "shoulds", thought they where the reality, and ended up being someone they don't want to be but think they have no option.

The truth is there are no "shoulds" or "have to's". The only thing there is is YOUR VISIONS, the STRENGHT of YOUR WILL and your SKILL of SEEING REALITY as its is, and not be blinded by the social constructs most people mistake for reality.

I have been reading a lot of your writings in this forum and they are great. You gave me value, now I give back, its that simple.

Your friend
Flow

i just fell over and DIED. i agree with FLOW. flow, i need resuscitation. oh wait, we arent speaking. dammit.

well doesnt this totally suck.

[authenticallyme]

running, swimming, pilates, nature, the beach, long walks, good conversation, margaritas with contreau no salt, reading, astrology, The Enneagram, physchology, my children, photography esp with my self timer, refinishing furniture, antiques, playing cards, strengthening my vocabulary via dictionary.com, RockStar, spiritual subjects, ACOA. oh, and posting about debateful subjects, anonymously on message boards. my next mountainous goal is to have Victoria Secrets establish a line solely for women of A cup stature, since they are so bigoted in this regard. they couldnt convince me to buy one of their half-stuffed wondrous bras if they paid me to do so.

see guys, ill be off your backs soon enough. there is WORK to be done.

[flow]

Originally Posted by authenticallyme

i just fell over and DIED. i agree with FLOW. flow, i need resuscitation. oh wait, we arent speaking. dammit.

well doesnt this totally suck.

Of course we are talking And you don't need resuscitation, its just satori, it feels like dying.

You see, what you reacted to when you came to this forum was a social construct, an illusion. It prevented you from seeing reality. I couldn't leave you like that, could I?

So I've been playing Zen-master on you and beating you to enlightenment, like Master Teh-cheng did with Chia-shan.

You can read the story here if you don't know it:
Turtle Channel!!!: Chia-Shan and his first light

You are very welcome here

Just plain unconditional LOVE from

Flow